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Feb 6, 2013

How Important is Your Hobby?

Many a golf widow will tell you that her husband loves golfing more than he does the family dog or even the wife herself. It is a given. Honestly I know because my husband loves to golf. It took some getting used to.

The Family Dog
Photograph (a favorite hobby) by b+
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So the question is "Should a couple curb their enthusiasm for a hobby that takes them away from one another a great deal of the time?" If you have ever gotten that feeling of obsession for a new interest, you know what I am talking about. Reining yourself in can be very difficult. I for one find myself looking at the person talking to me, nodding my head but thinking about something else. In my experience, that person will catch on to what you are doing sooner or later.

I am always thinking that I should rein it in when I find a new interest. But the reality is I don't. I have spent a lot of time on multimedia art, poetry, writing fiction and learning to golf. I am a reader that does not hear a thing when I am engrossed in a book. Each one of these took up physical time during the day but also kept my mind at work even when I was talking to another person. Is that bad?

There are different ways of looking at it.  Hobbies are very important to me in so many ways. They fullfill a creative need and I don't think I would be very interesting if I were not busy mentally. I might even be dull if I reined in it too much. In the end, being creative is important for my mind and emotional well being. I just need to fit other people into the cracks. I am getting better at it.

My husband and I share a huge part of our life. But, as a matter of necessity, we also have very different interests. We are happy with the way we live together. We are very lucky. We don't moan...any more. I guess we just grew up and learned to play/live together in a way that satisfies us both. That is a good thing.

 Just a thought!

b+

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