Ma and Pa Kettle from the farm? It can be a problem. While we like to think that our lifestyle is under control and we really don't have to get "dressed" up if we don't want to, the truth is appearance does count.
We moved from a very rural part of Oregon when we retired. People in metropolitan areas are more apt to judge you on how you are dressed. Dress rich and get treated rich! It is true even if it is sad.
Travel is a lot like that. We are leaving on Saturday for Riviera Maya on the Mediterranean side of Mexico. Cozumel will be nearby and the resort we will stay will be moderately upscale. We will do tourist things and shop. Time will be spent by the pool and we will dress for dinner on most evenings.
So out comes the resort wear. We bought new swim suits because we left ours in Arizona last spring. I had my nails and hair done. I insisted my husband get his hair trimmed. I just think we enjoy ourselves more when we put forward the effort to make ourselves look presentable. Feeling self confident is very important in travel situations. So we decided that Ma and Pa Kettle can stay on the farm. We are going get ourselves fixed up before we go to Mexico!
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