Can you practice living alone?
|My husband and I in Spain!|
So I don't make the bed sometimes when I am alone...shoot me if you like! Today I needed to change the bed so I just washed the sheets. They are laying on the bed in a heap. The sheets were dirty. That is my first excuse. Then I wanted to do some yard work. As I raked up the last leaf I realized I need to go and buy some more coffee. As I was driving to the grocery I remembered that I wanted to have sushi and my husband doesn't jump at that suggestion. I shopped and then drove to the sushi restaurant. It is a beautiful day so I drove home at a leisurely pace.
I still haven't made the bed. I've taken a nap, cleaned up the dishes and put the yard debris in the bin. There was even a walk and a glass of wine.
It is good practice. But, I do know that I don't like being alone, even though I can march to my own drummer. If that is coming down the pike, it will take a lot of getting used to. Even with practice, it will never feel right.