|Arizona at it's finest...Sedona, Arizona|
I am not here to burst your bubble but there are a few reality checks that need to be considered. I know...traveling off to warm weather in the winter, having two sets of friends and maybe a second home, sounds very luxurious. Golfing while your friends are mucking around on snow and ice would be soooooo dreamy. I want you to stop and think about what you might be doing. There are choices to be made and even financial sacrifices. I have been doing this on and off since I was 55. If over 15 years of experience makes me an expert, then that is what I am!
Being a snowbird requires some doing. I suppose the first consideration is money. Inexpensive second homes can be had but you need to be careful before you leap. (Link: Rental information) Areas that cater to snowbirds both in the southwest and southeast do provide opportunities to rent fully furnished apartments or park models in RV resorts. You will need to do some research online or even call a rental agent in the place you have chosen to visit. It is all very doable. ( Inexpensive Retirement Information) RV resorts offer a lot of activities and that is a real consideration when you have free time on your hands. You can rent park models* in these places. This is another choice that might replace living in an apartment.
Will I Miss my Grandchildren?
I think the answer for this one is obvious. Yes, you might miss your family. It is a given. But on the upside, your family dynamic may be better when you are gone for a while. When we started this life my children actually needed for me to be out of town for part of the year. I got a break from babies, my children became more independent and we enjoyed each others company more when we got back together. In fact, they now see us coming home as a vacation of sorts for themselves. If you have children that live in a warm place, you can choose to live part of your year close to one child and part of the year near the other. If you get need you can talk on Skype. We love doing this. (Link: Keeping Retirees Connected)
Where should I go?
This is such a personal thing...we chose a human comfort zone. Really the geographic location is not as important. For example, if I won the lottery, I would not be comfortable living in a high roller apartment in Las Vegas. That is not who I am. While this is an outrageous example, it is absolutely the truth. If you are a very educated person that loves the opera and expensive restaurants, you need to find a place where those people that live around you love the same things. (Link: Like Minded People)
How to Snowbird
We are leaving for Tucson within the next 10 days...here is where we get down to the nitty gritty of being a part time person in two locations. Think about:
- How long to stay gone? We are living about 6 months in both of our homes. That is a personal choice and one we have settled on after all these years. We began by traveling in a motor home and now own a park model in a resort in Tucson, AZ. We live in the Portland Oregon metro area and have been Oregonians all our lives. It rains a lot here and we like to avoid as much of that as we can and still enjoy our beautiful location.
- Should I fly or drive? After people have done this for many years they usually buy a clunker car and simply fly to their winter home. Really this depends on whether you are coming to Arizona from Nova Scotia or from Oregon. Some drives are just not worth the time and expense. Our friends put the car on blocks, disconnect the battery, find a spot in the shade for the vehicle and leave it behind. The worse that can happen is it is stolen or the rats gnaw on the electrical wires! But if it is an insured clunker, you are fine. (Rats are another thing entirely but still you need to be aware of any varmits that lurk about...FYI.)
- Should I rent out my home while I am gone? Well let me tell you if this is possible and you can find someone you trust, do this. Most of your other dilemmas don't exist when you do this. We have had students live in our house and rented it out. In both cases it was a win/win situation. The extra cash in the case of renting can pay for your time in the south! \The minor clean ups and damage were nothing compared to what we need to do when no one is in the house.
- Mail...the post office with forward mail with a beginning and ending date. If you are in one location, this works perfectly. If you are on the road you can have a family member forward you mail occasionally or you can have your mail forwarded to a service and they will take care of this for you.
- Turning off the water if possible...I know, you think this is a no brainer. You need to consider that if you turn off your water you also need to turn off your water heater. The tank could burn up without water. Some heating system is dependent on the water. Can you turn your heat off and not have big problems? Draining pipes might be necessary if you are from the frozen north! But, no matter what keep in mind what water can do. If you cannot turn it off, have someone check you home frequently. Water damage is a horrible thing and it happens a lot!
- Have the insurance for you second car changed...this can save you a lot of money. The insurance company will reduce the cost for you if you have the car in storage. Cutting the cost for car insurance for six months out of the year saves you money. In my world this is huge.
- Keeping the bad guys out...I know people that turned on an alarm system and walked away feeling very secure. When their house was broken into, the response from both the police and the system operators was less than wonderful. They came home to a real mess. Be very careful. We have someone check in occasionally and ask neighbors to be watchful too. We leave our phone number as well as our local family's number with them.
- Make your home look lived in when it is not...(see keeping the bad guys out). Be sure that some delivery person is not leaving unwanted ads at your front door. Piled up newspaper ads are an invitation to trouble. I suggest that you have a neighbor clear these away. I hate those things anyway but it happens. The local pizza parlor has to advertise somehow I guess. Leave the blinds partially cracked and leave a plant by the front door that will survive through the winter. You can even hang a generic wreath on the front door that looks welcoming. All these things make your house look lived in. I don't recommend the timers for lights...I understand they can be a fire hazard.
- Make choices about turning off garbage, TV, internet, phone service, etc. Most of these services have a "vacation/hibernation" setting. That means that they don't disconnect you entirely and all you need to do when you return is give them a call and they turn your service back on. Your garbage can, TV cable box and your modem for internet hook-up can remain in place. You might have to pay a small fee but it could be cheaper that paying to have services reconnected. This also gives you the option of coming home for a short period of time or letting a friend/relative use the home and having the services needed. We come home at Christmas and have our internet, garbage and TV turned back on for that short period of time. You make the choice.
- Decide on a wardrobe. It has taken me years to learn what to take with me and what to leave behind. If you are a total newbie, check on the temperatures during the months you are going to be in a locality. Arizona is NOT hot in the winter. Locals and experienced snowbirds do not dress like it is 90 degree when the temperature rises to the mid 60's during the day. You will need sweaters, longer pants and a jacket in the evening hours. Pay attention to this sort of thing when you pack for your trip. I know we all dream of warm winter days but in this case it is all relative. Warm in the winter is 65 degrees but compared to say Iowa that is really warm. See what I mean?
- If you leave the electricity on, UNPLUG EVERYTHING that can be disconnected...the vampires appliances can cost a lot!!!
- Then there is the cat!!! Our cat is a very real part of our life...however, the RV resort where we spend our winters will not allow a cat outside the park model. (See making snowbird location choices.) Because our cat was a feral cat when we found him in Texas, he will NOT stay indoors all the time. In fact, like my children when they were young, he would actually prefer to live and eat at the neighbors and eat again at home! We have opted to let him live with a family member while we are gone. If the neighbors are free to keep him, we let them enjoy his company full time. We supply the food. This is a hard choice but we decided years ago to make our life about humans and not our cat. He makes the sacrifice for us. We love him for that.
*A park model is a small trailer with all the same amenities as a trailer. Ours is about 12' wide and 34' long. We have added a room to the side that we call an "Arizona Room". That space provides storage and utility space. We also have a shed where our washer and dryer is stored as well as my husband's work bench.